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1Lao Zi once said, "Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner." People-pleasing, or
2seeking self-worth through others' approval, is unproductive and an exhausting way to go through life. Why do we allow
3what others think of us to have so much power over how we feel about ourselves? If it's true that you can't please all
4people all of the time, wouldn't it make sense to stop trying? Unfortunately, sense often isn't driving our behavior.
5For social beings who desire love and belonging, wanting to be liked, and caring about the effect we have on others, is
6healthy and allows us to make connections. However, where we get into trouble is when our self-worth is dependent upon
7whether we win someone's approval or not. This need to be liked can be traced back to when we were children and were
8completely dependent on others to take care of us: Small children are not just learning how to walk and communicate,
9they are also trying to learn how the world works. We learn about who we are and what is expected of us based on
10interactions with others, so, to a four-year-old, if Mommy or Daddy doesn't like him or her, there is the danger that
11they will abandon them. We need to understand that when we desperately want someone to approve of us, it's being driven
12by that little kid part of us that is still terrified of abandonment. As you become more capable of providing yourself
13with the approval you seek, your need for external validation will start to vanish, leaving you stronger, more
14confident, and yes, happier in your life. Imagine how much time we lose each moment we restrain our authentic selves in
15an effort to be liked. If we base our worth on the opinions of others, we cheat ourselves of the power to shape our
16experiences and embrace life not only for others but also for ourselves, because ultimately, there is no difference. So
17embrace the cliche (老话) and love yourself as it's highly doubtful that you'll regret it.
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